curtis sittenfeld Quotes

There are people we treat wrong and later, we're prepared to treat other people right.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
And this is how I know that it's all just words, words, words - that fundamentally, they make no difference... Our relationship, for as long as things were good, and in that moment when they could have been good again, was about the irrelevance of words. You feel what you feel, you act as you act, who in the history of the world has ever been convinced by a well-reasoned argument?
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
If a man wants to be romantically involved with you, he tries to kiss you. That's the entire story, and if he doesn't kiss you, there is never a reason to wait around for him.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
In life we're most hell-bent on proving things that we're not really sure are true.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
She nodded, jotting something in her notebook. You're writing that down? Has the interview started?" Lee, whenever you're talking to a reporter, you're being interviewed.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
Later on, when I tried to imagine how I might have ruined things, that would occur to me - that I'd so rarely resisted, that I hadn't made it hard enough for him. Maybe it was like gathering your strength and hurling your body against a door you believe to be locked, and then the door opens easily - it wasn't locked at all - and you're standing looking into the room, trying to remember what it was you thought you wanted.
tags: thoughts believe body strength imagine
— Curtis Sittenfeld
She opened her mouth but did not immediately speak, and I felt, simultaneously, the impulse to coax the words from her and the impulse to suppress them. I always thought I wanted to know a secret, or I wanted an event to unfold " I wanted my life to start " but in those rare moments when it seemed like something might actually change, panic shot through me.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
I just like to inhabit a character really deeply.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
It is not a camera, or a reporter that makes something real and genuine; more often a camera or a reporter does the opposite.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
The better you learn to take care of yourself, the less you settle for being around people who can't or won't treat you as well as you're accustomed.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
To remain alone did not seem to me a terrible fate, no worse than being falsely joined to another person.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
If I'm at somebody's house and they have magazines on the table and people are chatting, I feel almost a physical urge to start reading the magazines instead of talking to people.
tags: people reading
— Curtis Sittenfeld
Foolish names and foolish faces often appear in public places.
— Curtis Sittenfeld
And an unstable childhood makes you appreciate calmness and not crave excitement. To spend a Saturday afternoon mopping your kitchen floor while listening to opera on the radio, and to go that night to an Indian restaurant with a friend and be home by nine o'clock - these are enough. They are gifts.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
I have always found the times when another person recognizes you to be strangely sad; I suspect the pathos of these moments is their rareness, the way they contrast with most daily encounters. That reminder that it can be different, that you need not go through your life unknown but that you probably still will-that is the part that's almost unbearable.
tags: time people moment
— Curtis Sittenfeld
There are a lot of things in the world that are a lot weirder than psychic abilities, that we accept as true.
tags: world true
— Curtis Sittenfeld
Probably I, like a lot of people, became a writer in imitation of or in homage to the books I enjoyed. When you're so captivated by something, you think, could I do that? Hmm, let me try
tags: people book
— Curtis Sittenfeld
We have to make mistakes, its how we learn compassion for others
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
I always worried someone would notice me, and then when no one did, I felt lonely.
— Curtis Sittenfeld
I gave people the benefit of the doubt, thinking, so many people that appear very calm and even boring must have all these wild emotions and crazy ideas.
tags: people emotion doubt crazy wild thinking ideas
— Curtis Sittenfeld
Perhaps this is how you know you're doing the thing you're intended to: No matter how slow or how slight your progress, you never feel that it's a waste of time.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
We all make mistakes, don't we? But if you can't forgive yourself, you'll always be an exile in your own life.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
I'm able to separate fiction and reality. I guess it remains to be seen if other people are.
tags: people reality fiction
— Curtis Sittenfeld
In some ways I think it would be very dignified if I went away for twenty years and then wrote my fourth book.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
The fact is that in this day and age I don't think any novelist can assume that a book will get attention.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
There are so many people who are so much better qualified to write about politics than I am.
tags: people politics write
— Curtis Sittenfeld
Well, I think in my first two novels, both the characters are pretty neurotic, which I would say that I am.
tags: character novel
— Curtis Sittenfeld
I don't think that I would ever, while writing, think to myself, "I need a little more psychological realism."
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
When I was writing my first two books I was also freelancing and teaching and doing other odd jobs.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
You know, the point of a novel - or to me, the point of a novel, the gift of a novel is to go really deeply inside people's lives and inside their personal experiences.
tags: live personal experience gift novel
— Curtis Sittenfeld
I think I write what's interesting to me, and so if I'm reading I like to have a very thorough idea of a character in a book that's by someone else.
tags: character reading book write ideas
— Curtis Sittenfeld
I have this theory that the likeability question comes up so much more with female characters created by female authors than it does with male characters and male authors
tags: character questions author
— Curtis Sittenfeld
People who think my books are autobiographical, which they're not, credit me with having a much better memory than I do. I do, however, have a powerful imagination
tags: people memory powerful book imagination
— Curtis Sittenfeld
I don't really have special rituals, but I don't try to write fiction unless I have a minimum of a few hours. For me, it takes a while to settle into a mode where I'm truly concentrating
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
I like it when characters are some combination of appealing and maybe flawed or self-interested. I think in terms of scenes, and what I want a scene to achieve, and I think that the psychological realism arises from that.
tags: character achieve
— Curtis Sittenfeld
It's never that hard for me to imagine what it must feel like to be someone else, whether it's an American teenage girl or a Japanese octogenarian man
tags: men girls american imagine
— Curtis Sittenfeld
Personally, I have never wished I were a male novelist.
— Curtis Sittenfeld
If you're a parent in 2013, you have to get your hands on this book. Wise, engrossing, and so real that I fear Senior has been spying inside my house, All Joy is a must-read for those of us whose lives have been enriched and derailed by having kids.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
I think I would have liked to have been a twin. Sometimes my sisters and I get mistaken for twins, and I always take it as a compliment.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
I feel like if you read something, and it makes you so curious about a topic that you then go read something else, that's exciting.
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— Curtis Sittenfeld
curtis sittenfeld
Birth    : 1975
Occupation  : Writer